As an expert in Middle Eastern culture for 15+ years, Corina Goetz reckons we’re seeing it transform in real time. She’s keen to share her passion for its cuisine, history and beauty while challenging misconceptions and helping women have the best, most comfortable experience on their travels.
Helping Western businesses navigate two distinctly different cultures as a non-Arab speaking Western woman means I’ve travelled frequently to the Gulf. In my experience, it has been very safe, and the hospitality I have experienced is second to none. People are incredibly friendly and happy to help, especially the younger generation. Leaving your phone, bag or laptop in a cafe when going to the bathroom is no problem and everything is still there even when you come back after any length of time. As someone who lives in London, I find this hugely refreshing!
But while I’m keen to promote the Middle East as a beautiful tourist destination, I also want women to enjoy it comfortably and safely. Here are my top tips for getting the most from your visit.
- Be mindful when dressing
While major cities like Riyadh and Jeddah have become more cosmopolitan, traditional values still hold strong, especially in smaller towns and rural areas. While head scarves are now optional in many countries such as Egypt and Saudi, dressing modestly is still vitally important. The strict requirement for wearing an abaya (long robe) has also been relaxed for foreign visitors but in more conservative areas, wearing one can help you blend in and avoid unwanted attention. Generally speaking, loose-fitting, conservative clothing that covers shoulders, knees and cleavage is sufficient and respectful. And always wear a head scarf when visiting religious sites.
- Be aware of cultural sensitivities
Showing respect for cultural norms in addition to the way you dress will be highly appreciated. During greetings, men should not be the one to initiate a handshake so the onus will be on you. If you don’t feel a handshake is appropriate, a verbal greeting or a polite smile and a nod is enough.
When it comes to body language, actions that may be considered offensive include wearing shoes in someone’s home, showing the sole of your shoe, and using your left hand for greeting people, making gestures, or handling documents. Take a little time to familiarise yourself with more of these to ensure you travel safely and feel more at ease.
As a female solo traveller, you may encounter curious looks or questions from locals, particularly in areas less accustomed to international visitors. These interactions are often borne out of genuine interest rather than hostility, but trust your instincts, avoid travelling alone at night and use the same safety principles as you would in the West.
- Plan your accommodation and transport
Transportation can be a challenge for solo female travellers as public transport is less established than in the West. That said, large-scale schemes, which feel safe and are reliable, are on the rise. These include the recently opened and rather luxurious Metro in Riyadh, and the Metro in Dubai, which has a cabin reserved for women and children.
Ride-hailing apps like Uber and Careem are widely available in major cities and offer a convenient and safe option. For longer distances, domestic flights are efficient and reasonably priced. Accommodation options have expanded significantly in larger cities, ranging from international hotel chains to boutique guesthouses, but make sure you plan ahead rather than leaving this to chance, especially when travelling further afield.
- Adapt your communication style
Middle Eastern cultures are reserved, valuing politeness and avoiding confrontation, so avoid the overly direct or aggressive communication styles which are normal in some Western cultures. These can be seen as disrespectful in the Middle East. This includes swearing, which is always seen as impolite, so avoid using harsh language, even if you’re with people you know.
Keep physical space between yourself and men, avoiding overly friendly gestures or excessive eye contact. Again, these are commonplace is Western culture but can easily be misconstrued or cause embarrassment in the Middle East.
We live in an increasingly interconnected world yet there are so many misconceptions about other cultures. Saudi Arabia in particular has undergone significant transformation in recent years, particularly around women’s rights and tourism, and the introduction of tourist visas in 2019 opened the country to a broader range of international visitors. This has allowed for more independent exploration of the Kingdom, particularly relevant to female solo travellers. But there are still clear differences in culture.
In my experience, accepting that other cultures have different rituals and customs has opened my world up to a beautiful, vivid tapestry of beliefs and traditions that make up our global community. As well as serving me incredibly well from a business perspective, it has been the foundation for some of the most incredible travel experiences of my life.
Corina can be found on Instagram as @starcat_corina
- Corina Goetz